
Episodes 705-864
In general, my thoughts on
A Kindred Spirit tend to be very long… but boy, do I have a whole heck of a lot to say this time. Unlike the last couple of posts which broke my thoughts down into 50-episode intervals, this time my thoughts cover over 150 episodes. Of course, this number is nothing compared to the almost 300 episodes that my very first
Kindred post covered, but it’s still a lot.
With the death of Tsz Ho (Cheng Tse Sing), I wondered how it would affect Kindred. 200 episodes ago, this character revived the show and made things interesting again. When a long-running series kills off a pivotal character (although I’m sure everyone celebrated Tsz Ho’s death), the effect of such a death could potentially be dire for a series. Would Kindred die along with Tsz Ho?
In the first 20 or so episodes, I felt the series struggling somewhat to find itself again with Tsz Ho gone. They rather quickly introduced three new characters: Principal Ko (Lam Siu Jaam), Ko Nga Man (Cally Kwong), and Ko San Ching (Yu Yeung). Despite the initial struggles, Kindred soon found its stride again and delivered more good story-telling and crafted some of its best stories in these episodes.
After disappearing into the background for awhile, Ah Gwai (Angie Cheung) comes front and center again. Her mother-in-law, Auntie Mei (Bak Yan), comes to Hong Kong (along with Ah Hoi’s (Ben Wong) often-forgotten children) and makes her life miserable. Things go from bad to worse after her mother-in-law is convinced that Ah Gwai gives her “bad luck”. Her mother-in-law sings a new tune after learning that Ah Gwai is pregnant, but unfortunately, it was a mistaken report. Ah Gwai decides to continue to play up the pregnancy in order to make things “livable” for her at home.
At first Ah Gwai enjoys her fake pregnancy because it gives her “power” over her mother-in-law (who is now nice to her and heeds her every desire and request), but it soon gets to be tiring. Ah Hoi learns of the fake pregnancy and is upset at Ah Gwai for lying to him. He yells at her, telling her that she needs to stop playing around. Ah Gwai initially hot-headedly plans to divorce Ah Hoi, but he manages to calm her down and the two patch things up. They make a vow to be completely honest with each other from then on and won’t let lies get in-between their relationship again.


Ah Hoi is supposed to help Ah Gwai fake a miscarriage, but he’s so consumed in work that they never get a chance to discuss and act one out. Poor Ah Gwai is thus often left home alone to manage the whole household. She has no one to confide in (save for her good “sister” Ah King (
Kingdom Yuen)) and is often seen waiting on Ah Hoi, who shows very little care and attention towards her (being so wrapped up in his career and often away from home). It’s sad watching her record everything she wants to tell Ah Hoi (but can’t because he’s not available) into a tape recorder. She plans to let him listen to her woes when he’s home and has time for her.
The woman that Ah Hoi sees the most is his colleague, Nga Man — a beautiful, confident, smart, and successful career woman. Their relationship begins very professional and platonic, but as the two spend more intimate time together, things begin to change. Nga Man is deeply scarred when she discovers that her boyfriend/fiancé (Best Selling Secrets‘ Geoffrey Wong Chi Hung)) was gay and was only using her to cover up his homosexuality… but no one knows this besides Ah Hoi. Nga Man finds herself growingly attracted to Ah Hoi — Kindred‘s all-around “perfect guy”. When she becomes aware of these feelings, Nga Man forces herself to not think about it. She knows it is wrong because Ah Hoi can never be hers. He is a married man and she certainly doesn’t want to ruin his marriage with Ah Gwai.
Ah Hoi’s sympathy for Nga Man leads him into a sticky situation. With his mind deep in his career, Ah Hoi finds that Ah Gwai no longer “understands” him like before. She doesn’t know the pressures of work or what he goes through at his job. Thus he finds himself confiding more and more to Nga Man and spending increasing time with her. Ah Hoi & Ah Gwai somehow can no longer “communicate” like before. There’s none of the playful teasing and flirting that they used to have when they were dating and in the earlier stage of their marriage. It’s actually quite sad to see the two of them so distant.
As fate would have it, Ah Hoi & Nga Man are forced to face their forbidden feelings for one another after the two of them are caught in an earthquake. Believing that they’re going to die gives Nga Man the courage to confess her feelings. She cries, wishing that she hopes in the next lifetime she could meet Ah Hoi “first”. Feeling pity for Nga Man, Ah Hoi kisses her forehead and holds her. The two of them are eventually rescued, but they are left with the haunting memories of their unspeakable actions and words. The two of them simply can’t stop thinking about each other.
At this time, Ah Nam (Mark Kwok) returns, which sends Ah Hoi into a raging jealousy. People keep praising Ah Nam for being smart and capable and saying how Ah Hoi cannot compare. It doesn’t help that people keep reminding him about Ah Nam & Ah Gwai’s previous relationship. I really like the fact that Kindred mentions and brings back old storylines because it gives the series continuity and also gives the viewer a satisfying feeling because we’re able to recall the events with the characters.
Ah Hoi’s mother learns of Ah Gwai’s pretend pregnancy and her prejudice (hatred) against this daughter-in-law grows. She suspects that Ah Gwai is scheming to get her family fortune and plots to have Ah Hoi divorce her. Using Ah Nam & Ah Gwai’s friendship and past relationship to her advantage, she makes Ah Hoi think that Ah Gwai is cheating on him with Ah Nam. Ah Hoi is so consumed with his feelings for Nga Man and has grown so “indifferent” to Ah Gwai that he quickly and easily believes his mother. Ah Gwai cries because her husband doesn’t believe or trust her anymore.

Ah Hoi & Ah Gwai get into a heated argument. Ah Hoi accuses her of infidelity and demands a divorce. Like that, their marriage has dissolved… Of course, the Li family try to stop this divorce. After all, they’ve managed to stop Ah Wah (
Lau Siu Gwan) & Ah Yan (
Florence Kwok) from divorcing over 700 episodes back. Surely, Ah Hoi & Ah Gwai can be saved! Unfortunately, things go from bad to worse for the pair after Ah Gwai learns of Ah Hoi’s feelings for Nga Man. It finally makes sense to her why Ah Hoi so adamantly accused her of cheating with Ah Nam. It’s because he was looking for an excuse to divorce her so he could be with Nga Man. Extremely hurt, Ah Gwai is determined to divorce Ah Hoi.


It is very ironic that only after Ah Hoi & Ah Gwai divorce that she miraculously becomes pregnant (the doctor had told Ah Gwai that her miscarriage (caused by May May (
Celine Ma)) made it very difficult for her to get pregnant again (she was potentially infertile)). It is again ironic that May May is there with Ah Gwai when she learns of this pregnancy. Many episodes back, Ah Gwai would have died of happiness to learn of her pregnancy, but with the dissolution of her marriage, she doesn’t want to have this baby. She plans to have an abortion. Luckily, she ends up not going through with it and decides that she’ll have the baby without Ah Hoi’s knowledge. She wants to be a strong and independent “single mom”.
I really like the friendship of Ah Gwai and May May. It’s a surprising twist, but smartly and convincingly written. 200 episodes ago, they were sworn enemies. Who could have guessed that 200 episodes later they would become friends? It’s quite touching to see May May look out for Ah Gwai and offer her maternity advice. May May has truly grown as a person (even if minimally) and knows her wrongs and wants to make amends. I’m really glad the two of them were able to resolve their issues.
Speaking of May May, the way the writers are using her character in the comedic subplots have been hilarious. Her lines and actions never fail to amuse and crack me up. In these episodes, she went from wooing Ko San Ching to crushing on Lap Sang (Marco Lo). Her working as a nurse at Lap Sang’s clinic was a very wise choice as her interactions with the patients, her fellow nurse, and Lap Sang bring some very enjoyable laughs. Her crush on Lap Sang was quite inevitable and very funny. I liked how they didn’t drag out that storyline too much because it would have gotten tiring; the writers resolved it relatively quickly with Lap Sang adopting May May as his god-sister.
Despite the divorce, Nga Man and Ah Hoi respect Ah Gwai enough not to get together. They both know it’s “wrong”. However, as fate (or the Kindred writers) would have it, Ah Hoi was “destined” to have a “fourth wife” (Choi Yiu, Seung Seung (Candy Lo Lam), Ah Gwai, and Nga Man) like his twin brother. Despite their attempts to avoid each other, Ah Hoi & Nga Man meet again… and end up in bed. Thus, they begin a relationship even though they know they won’t have people’s approval. They believe they can fight through it and prove to everyone that they love each other and deserve to be in a relationship. Things get very complicated when Ah Hoi learns that Ah Gwai is pregnant with his child. He feels very confused and conflicted. On the one hand he knows he has wronged Ah Gwai, but on the other hand, he cannot just let go of Nga Man because they just started and he had made a promise that he wouldn’t leave her (Nga Man’s greatest fear is being abandoned).

As expected, everyone objects to Ah Hoi being with Nga Man; they’re all on team Ah Hoi & Ah Gwai because it’s the “right” and “moral” thing to do. Nga Man never wanted to be a “third party”, but it’s exactly what she has become. Everyone gossips about her and calls her names, blaming her for Ah Hoi & Ah Gwai’s divorce. It doesn’t help that she has to wait on Ah Hoi to make time to be with her. The two of them can’t be “out in the open” like other couples. Furthermore, he lies to her again and again to cover up for spending [forced by his family] time with Ah Gwai. This all leads Nga Man to doubt their relationship and their future. She doesn’t want to end up like her mother (who was also a “third party”) and she finds it very stressful and shameful. It’s actually very sad to watch Nga Man deal with the pressures of being labeled a “third party”. I feel really sorry for her watching her deal with everything. It’s heart-breaking seeing her try so hard to make the relationship work.


Auntie Yung (
Tam Sin Hung) goes to see Nga Man and tells her the story of Seung Seung — another girl who Ah Hoi wronged. She compares Nga Man to Seung Seung. Just like Nga Man, Seung Seung inadvertently became the “third party” between Choi Yiu and Ah Hoi. However, her situation was different in the fact that Seung Seung never knew that she’d be a “third party”. Everyone had thought Choi Yiu had died. Seung Seung was so in love with Ah Hoi and so happy to finally start a relationship with him. The two of them were on the brink of marriage when Choi Yiu came back. Just like that, Seung Seung fell from heaven — her blissful state of utmost happiness. Not wanting to make things difficult for Ah Hoi and knowing that Choi Yiu was the one that Ah Hoi loved the most, Seung Seung decided to withdraw from the love triangle and sacrificed her happiness. Nga Man cries after hearing the story.
After much thinking, Nga Man decides to go the path of Seung Seung: to leave Hong Kong and withdraw herself from the “love triangle”. Like that, Nga Man leaves… away from all the drama and awkwardness. Just like Seung Seung, she sacrifices herself for the sake of Ah Hoi and says that she is “content” with their short memories.
The “third party” is a touchy subject. I think the writers handled and wrote the storyline very well. Although I hate Ah Hoi’s love triangles, I have to say that Ah Hoi & Ah Gwai were the best candidate to have a third party come in to “ruin” their marriage. Being a “third party” is never anyone’s desire and no one intentionally chooses to be such a person. It’s a very tough situation when one finds himself or herself in the shoes of a “third party” (especially unknowingly), but when it comes to love, it’s often hard to think logically and follow your moral reasoning. Most of the time passion gets in the way. Nga Man tried so hard to stay away from Ah Hoi because she never wanted to be a “third party”. She was a smart, independent, and capable career woman… until love got her. To be honest, I think that Nga Man pretends to be [emotionally] stronger than she is. Although she is independent, she wants to be loved and taken care of like any woman. She weakened and succumbed to her love for Ah Hoi.
Everyone frowns on the “third party”, but honestly, why put all the blame on the “third party”? It takes two to tango and one key cannot jingle. The person I blame for Ah Hoi & Ah Gwai’s divorce is not Nga Man, but Ah Hoi himself. In fact, I do not place any blame on Nga Man at all. She never did anything wrong. She knew that Ah Hoi was married to Ah Gwai and she knew better than to ruin a marriage. Ah Hoi was divorced when they got together. Sure, morally it was too soon for Ah Hoi to be moving on, but Nga Man never initiated anything. It was all Ah Hoi. I have a huge rant that I want to get into about Ah Hoi, but I’m going to save it for a little later.
Initially I didn’t care for Nga Man. Her character was “cold” and therefore I found it difficult to connect to her. I honestly didn’t care for her storyline with her gay fiancé either and I was prejudiced against her character from the get-go because I knew that her character would lead to another love triangle for Ah Hoi. However, with time, I warmed up to her. Ultimately, I feel sorry for her (especially when people were constantly ridiculing and labeling her as the “third party”). Just like Seung Seung, she’s another pitiful girl with unrequited love. I can’t say that I’ll miss her character (because I don’t) like I miss Seung Seung, but like Seung Seung, I do hope that she’ll be able to move on and find happiness.
As for Cally, her acting isn’t anything to write home about, but I must say that I like her singing. She has a good voice and sings the melancholic love songs well (which remind me of Nga Man). Cally is pretty, but I think she has a “mature” type of beauty (at least during her run in Kindred). I appreciate her participation in Kindred.
With Nga Man gone, people thought that Ah Hoi and Ah Gwai would get back together, but they do not, which is very realistic.
Ah Hoi’s family eventually go bankrupt due to a bad business deal. His mother, Auntie Mei, who now is going blind because of her glaucoma, is sent to Hong Kong (because his brother, Ah San (Ben Wong), doesn’t want to deal with the “burden” of their mother — who fights with his 4 wives constantly). She has no idea about the dire state of her family’s fortune or how bad Ah San is. She is prejudice against Ah Hoi, saying how she doesn’t really trust him and how he’s not as capable or “good” as Ah San is. It’s pretty heart-breaking to hear her say this, especially because Ah Hoi tries so hard to please his mother and to fulfill her wishes (even though he’s not financially able to). Eventually Auntie Mei learns the truth and being her stubborn and prideful self, wants to be placed into a nursing home rather than live with Ah Gwai (who is kind enough to offer to take her in and care for her).
At the nursing home, everyone dislikes Auntie Mei. She is so crabby that she has no friends and the nursing staff all cannot stand dealing with her. With her pregnant belly, Ah Gwai pretends to be a nurse at the nursing home and goes to visit Auntie Mei almost every day. Auntie Mei has no idea that the nurse she praises and adores so much is the person she “hates” and criticizes to her face. It’s very sad to watch Ah Gwai listen to Auntie Mei saying what a “horrible” person Ah Gwai is. When Auntie Mei learns that it was Ah Gwai all along who had been visiting her and taking care of her, she goes into an outrage and leaves the nursing home, ending up falling down a flight of stairs and hitting her head.
Auntie Mei tries to push the “char siu” family that she despises away (especially Ah Gwai), but Ah Gwai persists. In a very touching and moving scene, Ah Gwai begs Auntie Mei to let go of the past and to give her a chance. She tells her the truth about the reality of things. Ah Gwai admits that she was wrong in pretending to be pregnant in the past, but she goes on to say that their relationship was quite good before that. She tells Auntie Mei that she views her not as a mother-in-law, but as a “mother”. She confesses that she was so happy when she married Ah Hoi because she thought that she could finally have a family and a “mother” to call her own (since her birth mother abandoned her). She urges Auntie Mei to put aside all of the past misunderstandings and issues so that they can start anew. She wants to take care of her not because she hopes to get back with Ah Hoi, but because she cares. Auntie Mei is very touched and cries. She now finally knows what a good girl Ah Gwai is and how wrong she was in the past.

I really enjoyed seeing Ah Gwai and Auntie Mei patch things up. It’s so touching! I really love the scene in which Auntie Mei breaks down and cries, saying how sorry and regretful she is for the way that she had treated Ah Gwai in the past. She wasn’t able to appreciate this good daughter-in-law and now it was too late.
Meanwhile, Ah Hoi refuses to go and see Ah Gwai because he’s too “ashamed” of himself. His career is nowhere and he cannot face her with the identity of a “failure”. He feels like a loser. Na-Duk (Chor Yuen) talks some sense into him by revealing the sad story of how his biggest regret is not going back to see his first wife (who he vowed never to come home to until he was a success). A man can lose many things, but it is not worth losing a good wife over his pride. Not wanting to have the same regrets as Na-Duk, Ah Hoi comes home to face Ah Gwai.
The much-anticipated confrontation between Ah Hoi & Ah Gwai was a very well-acted and written scene full of heightened emotions. It was exactly as I had imagined. Ah Hoi begs for forgiveness and a chance to make things right. Ah Gwai refuses, telling him that she’s a modern woman; she doesn’t need him. She is still young and attractive and can take care of not only herself, but her family as well. She is no longer the old Ah Gwai who only knew how to play and to spend money. She is self-sufficient and strong now and knows how to think. She boldly states that even if he dies, she will never forgive him. I really love Ah Gwai’s dialogue in this scene; it is such a classic moment.

I completely stand on Ah Gwai’s side. On what grounds does Ah Hoi deserve forgiveness? What has he done? All he has done is make a mess of things and run away. It is Ah Gwai who single-handedly managed their family and took care of everyone. Despite her pregnancy, she continues to work. She raises his children. She takes care of his mother. These are all responsibilities that she doesn’t have to take on (they’re divorced!). Furthermore, Ah Hoi did not show the least bit of concern for her throughout all those months. I completely agree that Ah Hoi doesn’t deserve forgiveness or a second chance.
Now… for my long rant on Ah Hoi.

In the early episodes of
Kindred when Ah Hoi was working at “Sam Doh”, I liked him. He was a genuinely nice guy who cared a great deal for his family and friends and his love for Choi Yiu was very touching. I continued to like him up until the Seung Seung/Ah Hoi/Choi Yiu triangle. From that moment, I slowly started to dislike him mostly because I hated the very tiring and dragging love triangle. I didn’t like him for being so indecisive and wishy-washy. I only felt pity for Seung Seung and Choi Yiu. However, with Seung Seung gone and later on with Choi Yiu gone as well, I slowly started to warm up to his character again seeing how kind he was to everyone. Things continued to go uphill from there and improved when Ah Gwai entered the picture. In these episodes though, the like that I regained for Ah Hoi rapidly disappeared.
I’ve always had a few gripes with Ah Hoi. Everyone praises him as being such a “good” boy who unconditionally helps everyone around him and takes on more responsibility than he “should”. He keeps everything to himself because he doesn’t want to burden others. He’s humble, kind, and so on. All of these points are fair and I see where they come from. However, I think Ah Hoi is overrated. It’s actually quite annoying hearing how everyone praises him all of the time. If he’s such a good guy, how come he doesn’t take care of his kids? He was more of a father before he became a father (meaning before he married Choi Yiu). He rarely sees his children and leaves them in another country for his mother to take care of. Yes, he has a career, but what kind of father is he when he rarely interacts with his kids? Furthermore, I cannot stand his “slowness” and how indecisive he is. Yes, it’s who he is by nature and what makes him so “pure”, but it gets very tiring watching him especially when it comes to making decisions. He’s humble, yes, but I do think he cares about being a success too.
I was quite frankly very shocked by how the Kindred writers were taking apart their “perfect” Ah Hoi. They were truly deconstructing him. We got some very good reasons to not like him. Surprisingly, these reasons all relate back to my gripes against the character. Just like I was surprised with how the writers addressed the problems I had with Lap Sang & Ah Jing (Wallis Pang), I was again taken aback by how the writers hit all of the issues I had with Ah Hoi as a character. In fact, he himself realizes and confesses his errors and flaws.
Ah Hoi remembers all four women in his life (Choi Yiu, Seung Seung, Ah Gwai, Nga Man) and how he has hurt or wrong them at least one point or another. I enjoyed seeing the flashbacks because it brought back memories (both good and bad) of Ah Hoi’s love life. I personally believe that Ah Hoi loves Choi Yiu the most (Ah Gwai even says so along with Nga Man and of course Seung Seung). He liked her since they were little and willingly gave up everything for her and supported and loved her through it all. I don’t think he “gave” as much to the other three.
Like I said earlier, I blame Ah Hoi for the dissolution of his marriage with Ah Gwai, not Nga Man. If he had just put forth a little bit of effort, their relationship wouldn’t have gotten into a rut. If he had cared enough about her and their marriage, he would listen to her and support her. He was so consumed in his own selfish career and trusted that their marriage was a “given” and set deal that he neglected Ah Gwai. Every relationship requires work and above all, effort. Yes, Ah Gwai may not understand what goes on in the company nor would she understand as Nga Man would, but if he never tells her, how can she even have the chance to understand? Ah Hoi closed the door in terms of their communication and without communication, how can there be a relationship let alone a marriage?
My blood boiled when Ah Hoi had the nerve to accuse Ah Gwai of having an affair. I was disgusted because it was clear that he was looking for an excuse to put some blame or fault on Ah Gwai as a result of his feelings for another woman. Furthermore, his jealousy and pettiness towards Ah Nam is very childish. Ah Nam has been such a great friend all along. For Ah Hoi to behave the way he did towards him is immature and ungrateful. I do understand a man’s pride and how Ah Hoi doesn’t want to depend on someone else for his success (I wouldn’t want to either), but I don’t agree with how he treated Ah Nam at all.
In love, friendship, family, and career, I just did not like Ah Hoi at all.
Okay… I’m done with my rant.
Despite my apparent disgust for the character, I surprisingly began to “feel” for Ah Hoi shortly after Ah Gwai shuns him. Ah Hoi gets kidnapped (people mistaken him as being rich) and violently tortured for ransom. The criminals are so cruel that they stab him multiple times and leave him for dead rolling down a hill. As much as I didn’t like Ah Hoi at that point, I did not want to see him die. I actually felt sorry for him and I teared up as they showed flashbacks of Ah Hoi & Ah Gwai (during the scene with Ah Hoi being stabbed).
Before his kidnap, Ah Hoi recorded and sent a video to Ah Gwai. He confesses and admits all of his flaws and mistakes. I was actually quite shocked by how candid and self-aware Ah Hoi was with how wrong he had been acting and how he too admits that people regard him [as a person] too highly. He tells Ah Gwai how sorry he is and how he regrets not listening to her. He feels ashamed that he was so neglectful and unappreciative of her. He begs for another chance. Ah Gwai cries buckets watching this video. I actually cried along with Ah Gwai. True, Ah Hoi may have done many bad things and I may be very annoyed and irritated by him and his actions, but he is not a bad guy. Everyone makes mistakes, right? This scene was very touching and another classic moment.


Ah Hoi’s body is found and rescued. Ah Gwai breaks her water and goes into labor because she’s so emotional seeing Ah Hoi’s terribly wounded body. At the hospital, Ah Gwai gives birth to a baby boy while Ah Hoi is in critical care. Things don’t look good for Ah Hoi. He apologizes to everyone. Seeing Ah Hoi in this state, I can’t bear to hate him anymore. Ah Gwai (who feels very regretful that she once said she won’t forgive him even if he died) rushes to Ah Hoi’s side when she learns that he possibly won’t survive. She cries and tells him that he can’t abandon his responsibilities and leave her and their son. Ah Hoi tells Ah Gwai how sorry he is once again. He’s very weak… and dies?


Everyone cries with the seeming death of Ah Hoi. I was very shocked that
Kindred would actually kill off such a major character (Choi Yiu’s death was shocking, but not so much for me because I had prior knowledge of it). Alas, it was only a “momentary” death. Ah Hoi regains consciousness and tells Ah Gwai that he couldn’t bear to leave her [and therefore had to come back]. The two cry and embrace. As a result of this life-and-death situation, the two of them realize how precious life is and how much they love and value each other.
I really enjoyed Ah Hoi & Ah Gwai’s storyline in these 150 episodes or so. It was so well-developed and crafted! It was very strong. Not only was it entertaining to watch, but it did wonders for them as a couple. Honestly, they were beginning to become rather “background” with their happiness (for any show, when a couple becomes too “happy” they often get “boring” and the audience lose interest). However, this storyline revived them as a couple despite ironically tearing them apart. Ah Hoi & Ah Gwai gained more depth and strength as a couple and both grew so much as a result of everything that happened.

Ah Gwai has matured and grown so much since we first saw her for the first time back in episode 300′s. Before she was untamed, irresponsible, and just loved to play around. Now, she’s a caring, responsible, and good wife and mother. She knows how to think now. Her growth is very gradual, subtle, and therefore totally natural and believable. It’s especially touching to watch her growth because we’ve seen it happen step-by-step through over 500 episodes. Initially I didn’t like Ah Gwai too much because she was too wild, but I must say that she’s one of my favorite characters now. I enjoyed watching her scenes and seeing how her character developed. Angie did a profound job acting this character. I think she excels as Ah Gwai and truly brings her to life. Her crying is excellent. Angie definitely looks prettier with long hair, but her haircut was a refreshing change and gives her a more “mature” look which physically embodies her inner maturation.
As for Ah Hoi, I haven’t seen much of him after his near-death experience so I can’t tell yet whether he has changed or grown. I really hope he does. He knows and has admitted all of his faults so there’s no excuse for him to continue to err. I hope he makes amends and like his wife, grows into a likable and respectable person. Right now I’m pretty much “neutral” towards him. I certainly don’t hate him anymore, that’s for sure. Until he proves that he has grown though, I won’t be on Team Ah Hoi.
I must admit that from the beginning I was prejudiced against this storyline. I dreaded the thought of another Ah Hoi love triangle and thought that the writers were doing this just for the sake of creating drama. Therefore, I was very surprised and impressed with this storyline after finishing it. Nga Man/Ah Hoi/Ah Gwai love triangle wasn’t that bad, thankfully short, and served a purpose. It didn’t happen just so Ah Hoi could have love triangle #2. There was meaning behind it and ultimately it propelled Ah Hoi & Ah Gwai’s relationship and led to growth for both. What could have been a very tiring and dragging storyline turned out to be very good for the show.
Auntie Ho (Nancy Sit) gets a new love interest in the form of the nerdy and embarrassing Dr. Ko San Ching. It starts off very innocent with Auntie Ho constantly teasing San Ching and trying to match-make him with Helen (Helen Ma). All of the playful jokes and time that they spend together inevitably lead to real feelings and love blossoming. I adore this couple! They have really good chemistry and are quite funny to watch! Auntie Ho & San Ching remind me of what she & Mao See (Melvin Wong) used to be before things turned bad. I think I prefer Auntie Ho with San Ching actually and I’m happy that she ultimately ends up being Mrs. Ko San Ching. After many years of suffering and disappointments, Auntie Ho has regained “face” and can hold her head up high. I’m really happy for her.

I like San Ching’s character. He’s genuinely a nice guy and a good doctor and a good addition to
Kindred. It’s funny seeing how “obedient” he is to his mother at the age of 50. It’s rather touching, but at the same time also unhealthy because he pretty much lost a lot of time. His mom turned away every woman he tried to date (thus his bachelor status despite his high salary and prestigious career as an oncologist) and he heeds and listens to everything she says and asks. Of course, his character’s obedience to his mom is exaggerated for comedic purposes, but I think there are people like San Ching out there. It isn’t until Auntie Ho comes along that San Ching begins to have a “life” outside of work and getting taken care of by his mom. She is daring and allows San Ching to “let loose” and have some fun for once in his life. She brings him a great sense of joy, meaning, and completeness that he didn’t have before. She opens his eyes to new things. It is only through Auntie Ho that San Ching begins to “live”.
Principle Ko, of course, was not at all pleased with the uneducated and improper Auntie Ho and tried to prevent their being together. Auntie Ho’s mother, Grandma Yuen (Lai Suen) also opposed her daughter from seeing San Ching because of a long grudge that she has against Principle Ko. 30 years earlier, Principle Ko and Grandma Yuen got into a huge argument after Principle Ko insulted her when she rejected Auntie Sin (Louise Lee See Kei) from dating her son. It’s because of this that these two old women are sworn enemies. Their bickering is often humorous and their rivalry lead to some good laughs and conflicts. Although predictable, I still enjoyed seeing how they mended their relationship and became good in-laws, in the end giving their children their blessings.
I’m a total fan of Auntie Ho & Ko San Ching. From the innocent beginning of their bond to the subtle development of their feelings for each other to their dating, it was all very humorous, sweet, and enjoyable. Opposites truly attract in their case and they complete and complement each other so well. Nancy and Yu Yeung have great chemistry too. I look forward to seeing their married life.
The best storyline in these episodes and arguably one of the best storylines Kindred has ever written in its run thus far has got to be the tragic death of Ah Kam (Louisa So). Yes, the Ah Kam who was so important at the beginning of the series who then disappeared for awhile and when she came back remained in the background as a supporting role. I do think they had exhausted storylines for Ah Kam & Ah Fook (Cheung Chi Kwong) so it was natural that their characters were left on the backburner for the past 100′s of episodes. I’m kind of glad that happened because I wasn’t a big fan of their stories after the first 200 episodes as they became somewhat repetitive and tiring to watch. Still, I like Ah Fook & Ah Kam and do like seeing them in Kindred.

Who could have thought that when they came back into the spotlight that it would be their final storyline? They went out with a bang and left a huge impact. This single storyline squeezed all of the tears out of me. I cried buckets! It was the most I ever cried watching any series, let alone
Kindred. I was literally crying non-stop in many scenes.
Poor bright and good boy Lok Lok (Ding Lik) develops a liver disease and the only way to save him is to give him a transplant. The best candidate? No other than his mother, Ah Kam. Lok Lok means the world to Ah Kam. She even proclaims that she doesn’t know how to live without her son. She’s invested and given her all to this son, who embodies her hopes and dreams for the future. Truly, Lok Lok is her all. Therefore she doesn’t hesitate to volunteer a portion of her liver in the hopes of saving her son.
Ah Kam’s love for her son is extremely moving! This storyline portrays maternal love and sacrifice exceptionally. You can feel how much Ah Kam loves Lok Lok and how willing she is to give and do anything for him that it is all just so tragic and heart-breaking. She doesn’t mind suffering for the sake of her son. She does so much for him and his future. Prior to his hospital admission, Lok Lok had written an essay about his mother. My god… this essay is probably the most moving thing the Kindred writers have ever written. Seriously. I cried non-stop during the scene in which Ah Kam reads the essay and learns exactly how much she means to him. This scene is such a heart-breaking and classic moment that brings me to tears every time I watch it.

Ah Fook & Ah Kam’s love really touched me. Ah Fook is often seen “complaining” about how “bossy” and “controlling” Ah Kam is and we often see Ah Kam criticizing Ah Fook for not being “ambitious” and for being “lazy”. Despite this, it’s clear that they love each other and this story showed just how much. I really like this couple and they probably represent a good deal of married couples out there.


The transplant at first looks to have gone well and it seems like both mother & son will be fine. Sadly, the celebration is premature and short-lived. Ah Kam suffers from complications because of an infection during the middle of the night. Unfortunately, she cannot be saved… Ah Kam’s last moments are imminent. Everyone gathers at the hospital to say good-bye to Ah Kam. It’s so sad watching everyone bid their last words to Ah Kam.
Ah Kam doesn’t want Lok Lok to know about her death yet (because she wants him to get better first), so she doesn’t let him see her. Instead, she calls him, pretending that she has fully recovered and is going on a flight for “awhile”. Hearing Ah Kam fake her well-being (and hiding her tears and pain) to Lok Lok and seeing him so oblivious to the fact that this phone call would be the last time he would ever talk to his mom again tugs at my heart. Ah Kam passes away singing Lok Lok’s favorite song…

Tears, tears, tears! I am not an emotional sap when it comes to watching series, but this storyline hit all of the right buttons.
With this story, Ah Kam has become not only one of my favorite characters, but also one of the most memorable Kindred characters to me. Her character is just so tragic! She didn’t have a good childhood and she came from a broken family. She couldn’t go far in her studies because she had to start working at a young age to support herself. Her life turns better after she marries Ah Fook and with the birth of Lok Lok. Even more, she reconciles with her estranged mother and reunites with her brother, Dai Sing (Johnny Ngan). She has a home and complete family at last. Her lucky streak continues when she’s able to own her own beauty clinic. Ah Kam can have good days at last, it seems. Tragically, it’s all taken away much too soon.

Ah Kam, I will really miss you! Louisa’s acting is truly exquisite.
Kindred didn’t give her much to do in the past hundreds of episodes, but she hit the ball out of the park with her acting in this extremely well-written story. Louisa is one of my favorite actresses now. She is a rare talent and I am glad that TVB gives her great supporting and leading roles. No matter what, Louisa shines. She is so good.
The death of Ah Kam hits Ah Fook hard. He finds himself so useless. His wife did so much for their family yet he seems to have no contribution at all. She pretty much took care of everything while he just sat around idle and oblivious. He can’t bring himself to face his son (he even wants to send him to a boarding school!) because when he looks at Lok Lok, he can’t help but “blame” him for causing Ah Kam’s death. Ah Fook comes around after an emotional scene in which Lok Lok (after learning of his mom’s death) begs his father not to abandon him. Lok Lok has already lost his mother; he cannot lose his father too.
The character of Lok Lok has gone through about 4-5 different child actors, which is a bit ridiculous. However, I am so glad they casted Ding Lik as the latest (and hopefully final) Lok Lok. This child actor is so good! He doesn’t overact and is naturally cute and lovable. His emotional scenes are nicely done and he really makes me feel for Lok Lok. Louisa, Cheung Chi Kwong, and Ding Lik all did an incredible job acting out this tragic story which hit this cute family of three.
I don’t know if Ah Kam’s death was written to write off Louisa (did she want off the series because of her lack of screen time and acting “substance”?) or if the writers wanted to open up new storylines. I’m going with the latter because of how persistent Ah Kam was that Ah Fook find Lok Lok another mother. If Ah Kam’s death wasn’t so poignantly and well-crafted, I would curse the writers for killing her. However, because it was one of the best things that happened to the series, I am glad the storyline happened. I loved it so much!
Ah Fook’s single status was bound to not last long (how many single guys are there in Kindred?), but I was shocked by how “quick” the writers paved the way for Ah Fook to meet his second wife in the form of Sze Kam (Fiona Yuen). Just episodes after Ah Kam’s death, Sze Kam already appeared. When we first meet her, Sze Kam appears to be a sweet and giving mainland girl. She even saves Lok Lok and becomes his god-mother. Soon, though, we learn that Sze Kam is not what she appears to be. In fact, behind the beautiful face, polite and “shy” manner, and smiles is a greedy and wicked lady. She plots to marry Ah Fook and steal the Li family’s money (she believes they are rich).
She tricks Ah Fook into believing that he slept with her, which leads him to feel guilty and want to take up “responsibility”. Like that, Ah Fook and Sze Kam marry. Sze Kam enters the Li family, the first step in her big plan succeeded. Sze Kam is going to fill the role of the “big villain” that was left vacant after Tsz Ho died. I wonder how well she’ll do and what kind of wicked things are in store.
Coming into the series along with Sze Kam are two of my most-hated characters that Kindred has crafted — the irritating and greedy mother & son pair of Ah Fat (Leung Gin Ping) and his mom (Li Lai Lai). Sze Kam may be the “big villain” plotting, but these two just make my blood boil. I heard that they “ruin” Kindred and after they appear the series goes downhill. I really hope not. So far, yes, they have tainted Kindred with more typical and annoying gambling and money-schemes storylines (haven’t we had enough of those already from other characters?). I really don’t enjoy watching them at all and groan whenever they are on-screen. Hopefully their scenes are limited.
Sze Kam and Ah Fat are actually lovers. They pretend to be siblings because Sze Kam (who was a hungry orphan) took on his sister’s identity after she died. I feel nothing for this couple, mostly because I hate Ah Fat. I don’t find it “tragic” that they have to [temporarily] part or hide/suppress their love because Sze Kam “has to” marry Ah Fook.
Fiona’s debut performance is not too bad. She’s doing okay as the evil villain. I usually find Fiona pretty, but her short hair doesn’t look good and her make-up is too strong (though I think it’s to exaggerate her “evil” face).
I’m not too interested in the Ah Fook & Sze Kam storyline right now. I get slightly annoyed with how fake Sze Kam is, but I have to say she makes a good villain. The set-up with getting Ah Fook to marry Sze Kam was predictable. It was pretty much the only way I saw that would make it believable that Ah Fook would marry someone so quickly after Ah Kam’s death.
Tied in with Sze Kam’s plot is Dai Sing’s deteriorating relationship with the Li family. Sze Kam sets him up because Dai Sing is the only person who doesn’t buy her “niceness”. Everyone believes he’s just being prejudiced and unreasonable because of Ah Kam’s death, so they side with Sze Kam (furthering her plot). It’s really sad watching people believe Sze Kam instead of Dai Sing. How can they after so many years? I don’t blame Dai Sing at all for being upset and breaking ties with the Li’s. I look forward to the day when everyone realizes how right Dai Sing was.
With Dai Sing leaving “Sam Doh”, Ah Fat goes to work to take his place (which I’m sure will lead to some trouble later on). Dai Sing goes to business with Mok Chuen (Yeung Ying Wai) and they open up a $10 Dollar store opposite “Sam Doh”. It’s nice to see them have their own business. Also, it’s touching that Ah Fook secretly helped to fund the business in an effort to repair his relationship with Dai Sing. Ever since Sze Kam came into the picture and especially since he married her, Dai Sing hasn’t been Ah Fook’s biggest fan. It’s sad because they used to be good brothers. I look forward to Ah Fook and Dai Sing making up (as I do Dai Sing getting justice from everyone overall, especially Char Siu Bing (Lau Dan), who is arguably the most unjustly against Dai Sing).
As for the other characters, Lap Sang can now walk normally again. He underwent corrective surgery on his leg thanks to the arrangement and support of Ah Jing. This is such a good-looking couple. Again, I am still waiting for Lap Sang to do “something” to prove his love. Speaking of proving “his love”, I must say that Mok Chuen surprised me by finally expressing and admitting his love for Siu Mooi (Yvonne Lam). They are a cute couple too and I’m glad that Siu Mooi’s love is finally returned and they are “officially” a couple.

Holy crap! I wrote a book! What can I say? These episodes had a lot to offer and I had a lot to say. It’s been four months since I’ve seen these episodes, but I can still recall the details. I haven’t seen any more
A Kindred Spirit episodes since January because I vowed that I couldn’t watch more until I caught up in posting my thoughts. I’m really excited to watch the series again! I miss these characters and I want to see what’s next. It does make me sad that I’m going into the final stretches with only 300-something episodes to go. It’s been quite a journey already!

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